Marriage is a deeply significant and fulfilling journey, especially within Islam, where it is regarded as half of one’s deen. But how do you know if you are ready to embark on this path? The question is even more poignant for those who feel they may have missed their “prime” years of marriage and are…
Hey there, amazing Muslim sisters! So, you’re slowly inching your way away from the big 3-0, or and suddenly it feels like the world has an opinion on your relationship status, right? The societal expectations, especially for Muslim women, can be a bit overwhelming. But fear not, because you’re not alone in this journey, and…
I was honoured when Sister Samar Asamoah from Niqabi Diaries Podcast included me as an Advanced Reader for her new book, How to be a Single Muslim Mum. Although the topic itself is not directly relevant to me, reading this book offered me a beautiful perspective on the challenges and triumphs faced by single Muslim…
In a world often adorned with romantic tales and fairy-tale endings, the journey to finding a life partner can be clouded by unrealistic expectations. For Muslim women navigating the path of matrimony, the call to embrace realism becomes not just a choice but a guiding light leading to fulfilling and grounded connections. In my book,…
The Samoosa Run holds a special place in traditional matchmaking. It is a time-honoured practice in many Muslim families where a couple meets, usually ‘blindly’, to ascertain if they could be a possible match. While that’s happening, the families usually meet to discuss the possibility of a union, often focusing on the “big things” like…
Ah, the journey of marriage – a thrilling adventure filled with highs, lows, and the occasional stormy weather. For those setting sail into the seas of matrimony, the importance of a reliable compass cannot be overstated. And who better to provide that compass than the seasoned navigators of love and commitment – our parents? They…
On 28 January 2024, I was invited to speak at Journey to Jannah’s first online seminar on Marriage. I was asked to cover the topic of Rights and responsibilities of husband, wife and in-laws. For your convenience, I’ve recorded my contribution for you, and I have also included a full transcript. May Allah SWT accept…
Have you ever stopped to wonder how our grandparents (and perhaps some of our parents) found a spouse the halaal way and kicked off their marriage by sharing just one family car, living communally, and were known to do a whole lot of hard work in their daily lives? They started off their marriages with…
When I posted on Instagram about finding a spouse the halaal way, I didn’t realise the post would blow up the way it did. It has done way better than any other post thus far, and it got me thinking that this is a topic that my tribe may want to know more about. While…
